Planning a christening (binyag): ninongs, ninangs and the day itself
Updated October 2026
A christening is two events in one morning: the baptism at church and a reception after. The part families spend the most time on is the sponsors — the ninongs and ninangs. Here is how to approach both without last-minute surprises.
Start with your parish
Requirements differ from parish to parish, so ask your parish office first, before you invite anyone. Common questions to ask:
- Which dates and times are available for baptisms, and whether they are group or private.
- Which documents they need — commonly the child’s birth certificate and the parents’ details.
- Whether parents and godparents must attend a pre-baptism seminar, and when it runs.
- Whether they limit the number of sponsors, and what they ask of them (for example, that they are confirmed Catholics).
Choosing ninongs and ninangs
- Choose people who will be present in your child’s life, not only on the day.
- Ask each one personally before announcing anything — it is an honour and a commitment.
- Keep a single list of who said yes, so you know who to send the seminar details and the programme to.
- Tell them the dress code and the time to arrive at church, since sponsors take part in the rite.
The reception
- Book the venue or restaurant close to the church so guests are not lost between the two.
- Plan food around your guest count — sponsors, family and friends add up quickly.
- Decide on giveaways or souvenirs early if you want them personalised.
- Send everyone the church time and the reception address together, with a reply-by date.
Guests and replies
The quickest way to get an accurate headcount is one invitation link per household, where each family names who is coming. It saves calling around the week before, and the caterer gets a real number.